View Full Version : I'm so tired...

06-04-2007, 22:16:07
We rented a house with my girlfriend since I had returned to mommy and then I would leave again. i hate moving outs. i really really do. anyway now we rented a house for a few months untll i will leave and rent a new house. I WANT MY TOMB TO WRITE "FINAL RESTING PLACE"
only then i will relax

anyway she's obsessed with cleaning. i mean i have never EVER lived in a cleaner house. now check this. she lives with her family although she's 29. She does have financial security. so at nights she returnes to her family which I inittially had thought was her husband (but i checked it out)

man she's so far away from me educationally, culturally, ethically, mentally AND YET WE CLICK SEXUALLY

anyway so much cleaning...

clean clean clean

she let's me smoke inside.


I DIDN'T KNOW THAT. fhasldkfhjldfj misogynist religious fathers.

and cleaning, so much cleaning...

rent is half half and she takes care of all expences since i have to save money for my departure.

but so much cleaning

i just sit there and smoke and then i take care of sexual pleasures.

is this the famous ORIENTAL MAN?

no more CLEANING please.

06-04-2007, 22:24:59
i had thought a woman is free to know no cooking no cleaning no anything

and to work have her job be intipendent and financially stable. ruler of herself

and i have a girl who knows how to cook EXELENTLY cleans, makes coffee runs for me to get me things. she's the perfect housewive. and i'm the perfect oriental man.

BUT to those who thing that this makes the man the man of the house they sleep in a delusional sleep.

i say no more

but she's a cute little girl. i kind of like her a lot. she has tons of friends (and her exs). I became jealous of a girl for the first time in my life. she's also jealous of me but doesnt show it.

she says she's afraid she's not up to my standards.

but she's very reserved with what she gives.

she can clean cook etc but doesnt say a kind word.

i say kind words. i say how beautiful she is

she doesnt say anything.

she cleans cooks, cleans, cooks.

i say about my friends. my adventures.

she says nothing. she cleans and cooks cleans and cooks.

what god is there of love that makes people get together like that.

paradoxically antithetical and we live in the same house (which is clean, i did mention that?)

I wonder what kind of utter ASSHOLES that girl must have met in her life. i do things that are normal courtesy to do and she says she had never been given them.

little paiktis is sailing sailing

with no compass.

it's logical. we are completely different. i dont know how she thinks. it's impossible not in the slightest.

in bed she doesn't know much but she turns me on SO much.

what have i gotten myself into.

big guns
big guns

06-04-2007, 22:33:49
and i gotten a jealous fit after some guy called her she called him my baby my love (she calls most people that) and he turned out to be ex boyfriend who bonged her and left her.

needless to say, i forbit any further contact.


i dont like having jealousy fits. they're ugly.


i am a pasha

06-04-2007, 22:42:47
what do low educational sphaires do to families.

AM I WRONG TO PROFESIZE in favor of western style independence instead of oriental conservatism?


Who on earth doesnt have sex because it's big friday? i eat meat drink alcohol and (would like) sex on big friday but NO because it's a sin

a SIN.

sin? haaaaha she says she's atheist

a the greek orthodox atheicisms.i got it now.

man i get so jealous. i was never jealous in my entire life. why now?

we are heading to a very very big crush.

she says that if we break up i will be the first of her exes she will not have friendly relations with.

why is this happening to me?
do i hurt girls so much they never want to see me again?

why would she say that?

anyway tomorrow to the supermarket. she says she wants us to go together. then she had her period so i proposed to go bath in the sun and have coffee.

and she snaps baack with you dont want me anymore.

i only said let's go to the supermarket (cause i had to start it somewhere) and then let's go bath in the sun.

you dont want to spend time with me anymoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooore


06-04-2007, 22:44:31
schizophrenics in love
but we potential.

Qaj the Fuzzy Love Worm
06-04-2007, 22:44:52
Summary: you're drunk?

06-04-2007, 22:48:41
very much. is a conscious decision of a symbolic nature and constitutes a frontal assault to established religious dogmas and regulations

06-04-2007, 23:14:48
Did you start channelling MrG?

06-04-2007, 23:26:33
Definitely fucked in the head.

He must be missing his marbles...

Greg W
06-04-2007, 23:53:37
Hmm. My last girlfriend also had never been treated well by her exes - in fact I believe her term was that every ex she ever had had abused her in some way (mostly emotional abuse). And the strange thing was she said that it was extremely hard to go out with someone that was nice to her. Something about it being easier to stay with something that you know, aka abusive partners, than move into the unknown.

I see errily similar parallels.

Qaj the Fuzzy Love Worm
07-04-2007, 03:23:40
OMG you read that? :D

07-04-2007, 04:11:59
I don't see how people can ever get together anymore. They are all so messed up. Perhaps I've just lost patience with it over time. Too many girlfriends who were either too distant or too needy. There never seems to be a balance, and they all have their excuses. At this point, I think there is only one girl I could be with and, god, how I loathe her.

Greg W
07-04-2007, 13:52:23
Originally posted by Qaj the Fuzzy Love Worm
OMG you read that? :D Yeah, he's rather ammusing when he's drunk. You can almost see the thought process. ;)

07-04-2007, 18:54:33
I gave up after the first post

09-04-2007, 15:31:14

09-04-2007, 15:31:36
and aaa

10-04-2007, 07:48:58
Some brit poster should collect these Paiktis ramblings and publish them, they will be a great hit.

10-04-2007, 08:07:05
Originally posted by MOBIUS
Definitely fucked in the head.

He must be missing his marbles...

they must be so clean he doesn't recognise them

10-04-2007, 08:08:03
so where have you been MoSe?

10-04-2007, 08:13:41
now don't pretend you missed me
I'm not here anyway
I was just waiting for the dispatcher to get me the project task I have to work, which is much more interesting

10-04-2007, 08:21:34
I was wondering where you were when we were having all the Champions League chats! Unlike you to miss them.

Great stuff from Paiktis.

Dyl Ulenspiegel
10-04-2007, 10:19:39
What a longwinded way to tell the simple story: Man does not understand woman.

Oh, and CGers don't understand paiktis, but that's a bit more specific...

10-04-2007, 10:38:05
Paiktis is my current Poster Of The Year nomination.

and drekkus was right, so right that i might just copy off all of paiktis posts and try and passs them off as a british male metrosexual bridget jones

10-04-2007, 10:45:01
BIG FRIDAY is what I'm calling it from now on.

Dyl Ulenspiegel
10-04-2007, 10:47:00

10-04-2007, 11:19:06
Originally posted by King_Ghidra
Paiktis is my current Poster Of The Year nomination.

and drekkus was right, so right that i might just copy off all of paiktis posts and try and passs them off as a british male metrosexual bridget jones :beer: Start it off as a column in a popular newspaper, then join them in a book.

10-04-2007, 12:13:44
Unbelievable stuff. I'm sure it would be gripping if I can force myself to actually read it instead of skimming every fourth line. Still amazing though.

10-04-2007, 12:23:08
I remember when I was young, watching a porn where a girl plucked a stray hair out of a dick head, before blowing it

talk about being a cleaning maniac

10-04-2007, 14:19:21
He's got a girlfriend who loves cleaning house and he's complaining?

Lurker the Second
10-04-2007, 14:26:12
Apparently she's not cleaning his balls, though.

10-04-2007, 14:31:43
Well, not on BIG FRIDAY

10-04-2007, 14:53:25
Big guns
big guns

And no, before you even think it, not Gunns.

10-04-2007, 14:58:21
Nobody thought it.

10-04-2007, 15:03:26
little paiktis is sailing sailing

10-04-2007, 21:00:01
pointe finale.

10-04-2007, 21:11:24
i will only say this.

the girl was either

a) mythomaniac. could wave lie after lie after lie 100% convincingly non stop
b) very problematic.

either way asta la vista with a pain in my heart but... you have to be a bitch to be rich and you have to be stable to own a staple

11-04-2007, 07:02:40
Paiktis, every other week you have these stories about women in your life. Does that mean you have 26 women a year, or do I have false idea of the greek orthodox attitude of the women over there?

11-04-2007, 09:18:38
in between in between

11-04-2007, 09:20:02
we're not catholics, although I imagine catholics also have just the name. there's guilt and then behind the scenes what happens is outwordly. something like that

11-04-2007, 09:25:10
for example
she tells me she doesnt like hotels, never been in one finds it too dirty. paiktis gets all out of shape to accomodate.
then i found out she's done it in the toilets.
paiktis gets dumbfounded, hurt, and crazy.

11-04-2007, 09:30:24

11-04-2007, 09:39:39
maybe she cleaned the toilets really well beforehand?

11-04-2007, 09:40:12

Dyl Ulenspiegel
11-04-2007, 09:40:19
Nope, she just knows what happens in those toilets...

12-04-2007, 10:36:50
it's a fucked up messed up world my friends.

12-04-2007, 11:01:57
not sad and beautiful?

12-04-2007, 11:21:56
Originally posted by paiktis
for example
she tells me she doesnt like hotels, never been in one finds it too dirty. paiktis gets all out of shape to accomodate.
then i found out she's done it in the toilets.
paiktis gets dumbfounded, hurt, and crazy. are you BGH's son?

12-04-2007, 12:51:55
BGH's son's gf has had sex in a toilet with a previous boyfriend too?

12-04-2007, 12:55:05
:lol: i don't quite understand what the link is either

14-04-2007, 17:29:24

Good luck paiktis. What's the saying... "there's a good woman behing every successful man"? Marry her and sky is the limit. Get into politics. <s>Start a business</s> get more education. Start a religion. Buy a TV. Everything is possible.

Greg W
15-04-2007, 00:22:18
Well, except that he just broke up with her. Oh well...

19-04-2007, 09:33:27
We're back together. It's like pulling a tooth. Sometimes I think I just like the challenge. Sometimes I think it's not worth it. Conservative families destroy children. What am I doing with one? Sometimes I think sdhagfksajhfg nowhere to go nothing to do with my time i feel looooonely so loooonely living on my own.

19-04-2007, 09:35:11
29 years old and the she doesn't want to dissapoint daddy by telling him she has a relationship? Ends up not being a relationship. I understand.... I don't. I understand. I don't.

19-04-2007, 09:36:06
we break up aproximatively 2 times a day especially when the work load is too heavy.

19-04-2007, 09:46:39
Originally posted by VetLegion-

Good luck paiktis. What's the saying... "there's a good woman behing every successful man"? Marry her and sky is the limit. Get into politics. <s>Start a business</s> get more education. Start a religion. Buy a TV. Everything is possible.

That's how the west poisoned your naive minds easterners. Janisars of capitalismus.
Fair enough.

19-04-2007, 09:48:40
Janisars? Janitors?

19-04-2007, 09:58:17
but you know what i'm afraid of? That I have a girl that understands, that she has stability in a weird way (despite the crying, the fainting, the bleeding of nose, the spilling her guts out to collegeus) and that she does understand me and cares about me but for some reason she hasnt put me first in her life. And that somehow "clicks".

Ok I think i have every potential to do better but somehow she does say that she understands she's putting me trhough a lot but she hs to maintain balances between everyone. She has to keep everyone happy. Her dad, her collegeus, me.

And I think that I can do better but I am afraid that maybe I will fall back on inactivity. I don't have faith in myself much. But I do manage to have little wins. One after the other. And that's somehow good. I remember leaving for the better because I am too impatient. That's the story of my life. I leave for something potentially better because I'm too impatient. Anyway, if the girl keeps on breaking that's good. Because that's good for us. Like she feels guilty when she's with me but she wants to be with me. I don;t trust someone who's messed up and I know she's lying. I hope the lies are inoccent and not serious.

In anycase the ultimatum is that if we break up even once untill next monday it's over one and for good. And we WILL be together friday morning , then she goes to eat with her family, and then the afternoon. And we WILL go to a summer house of a friend this weekend. IF for ANY reason at ALL this is not accomplished and if we break up even once since then, then it's all over. I too have my limits.

She says her whole life has changed, she is a different person and that I have changed all her cosmotheory. But that she can't make such huge steps as I do, taking her life in her own hands. And asks me to be patient. I say that she is just afraid I don't love her. And I say that deeds talk, not talk (clear enough).

Yes and I said that today you wont call me even once. Go anywhere you like, be cool or else, and I 'll go where I like and I'll be cool. Then tomorrow we meet face to face not through telephone lines.

She says she can't take huge steps, I say take some or we're through and I'll miss you because I know that you don't want to be friends if we break up and I'll lose a person that I love.

Greg W
19-04-2007, 11:13:19
Asking a person to take such huge steps when they're not ready sounds like a recipe for disaster. Even if she manages it, she may still resent you for putting her through it.

Your call though.

19-04-2007, 14:53:35
My call because I leave Athens in 3 months and I wanna be sure if I let her in my new life afterwards.

So put up or shut up.

And she wants it, australian woodpecker. She wants it more than I do. She just wants someone to twist her fucking arm in doing it. I'm that for her. Even if her father shows up with a shotgun I will have a machine gun in his fucking face.
I'm telling the truth in this. I have shown much patience and much much understanding. I have not lied I have been considerate but the time to produce has come. She keeps saying I'm the love of her life and that I put her in a new genesis. That's enough for me to know what she wants.

I keep asking her. You want to break up? She says no. So on we go because there's no other way

Dyl Ulenspiegel
19-04-2007, 16:33:11
Where will you go from Athens?

23-04-2007, 07:47:36
that's for her
I am a cleaning NINJA. I'll make that dirt my BITCH. :cracking knuckles: